Going for the annual Christmas gatherings, it really sucks to hear hey you lost weight you look pretty now. Was I not pretty before? Whose standard of beauty are you imposing on me? It really sucks because wanting to lose weight should not be because you wanna look prettier, hotter but because you wanna feel better in terms of health, you wanna sleep better, your body is fitter. The best compliment you can give someone is you look happier. You look healthier.